Anniversary Gifts by Year
Every anniversary has a material or gemstone tied to it – from paper and gold in the first year to gold for the 50th and diamond for the 60th. Use this guide to find your year, compare the traditional, modern and gemstone lists, and see jewelry from our Canon City store that fits.
Anniversary Gifts by Year Chart
The traditional list goes back generations. The modern list was added in the 20th century, and the gemstone list gives a gem for each year.
| Year | Traditional | Modern | Gemstone |
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| 1 | Paper | Clocks | Gold |
| 2 | Cotton | China | Garnet |
| 3 | Leather | Crystal or glass | Pearl |
| 4 | Fruit or flowers | Appliances | Blue topaz |
| 5 | Wood | Silverware | Sapphire |
| 6 | Iron or sugar | Wood | Amethyst |
| 7 | Wool or copper | Desk sets | Onyx* |
| 8 | Bronze | Linen or lace | Tourmaline |
| 9 | Pottery or willow | Leather | Lapis lazuli* |
| 10 | Tin or aluminum | Diamond jewelry | Diamond |
| 11 | Steel | Fashion jewelry | Turquoise |
| 12 | Silk or linen | Pearls or colored gems | Jade* |
| 13 | Lace | Textiles or furs | Citrine |
| 14 | Ivory | Gold jewelry | Opal |
| 15 | Crystal | Watches | Ruby |
| 16 | — | Silver hollowware | Peridot |
| 17 | — | Furniture | Watches |
| 18 | — | Porcelain | Cat’s eye chrysoberyl |
| 19 | — | Bronze | Aquamarine |
| 20 | China | Platinum | Emerald |
| 25 | Silver | Silver | Silver |
| 30 | Pearl | Diamond | Pearl |
| 35 | Coral | Jade | Emerald |
| 40 | Ruby | Ruby | Ruby |
| 45 | Sapphire | Sapphire | Sapphire |
| 50 | Gold | Gold | Gold |
| 55 | Emerald | Emerald | Alexandrite |
| 60 | Diamond | Diamond | Diamond |
| 75 | Diamond† | Diamond† | Diamond† |
Why lists don’t always match: there is no single official list, so sources vary. Most traditional lists skip years 16–19. *Some gemstone lists name yellow sapphire for year 7, morganite for year 9 and alexandrite for year 12. †Some lists name gold for the 75th. Pick the version that feels right to you – the thought counts most.
Anniversary Jewelry for Years 1–10
Each piece below is from our collection – tap a photo to see details.
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Year 1GoldTraditional: Paper · Modern: ClocksGold is the classic first-year jewelry gift – a simple piece in gold is a gift she can wear every day.
Shown: Black Hills Gold Bee Pendant, 10K with 12K accents → -
Year 2GarnetTraditional: Cotton · Modern: ChinaDeep red garnet stands for warmth and commitment, a fitting gem for year two.
Shown: Garnet Vintage-Inspired Pendant, 10K yellow gold → -
Year 3PearlTraditional: Leather · Modern: Crystal or glassPearls build layer by layer over time – a lovely symbol for a marriage that is growing.
Shown: 7mm Pearl Stud Earrings, 14K yellow gold → -
Year 4Blue topazTraditional: Fruit or flowers · Modern: AppliancesBright blue topaz brings a fresh, cheerful color to the fourth year.
Shown: Swiss Blue Topaz Pendant, 10K white gold → -
Year 5SapphireTraditional: Wood · Modern: SilverwareSapphire’s rich blue has long stood for loyalty and trust.
Shown: Sapphire Accented Ring, 14K yellow gold → -
Year 6AmethystTraditional: Iron or sugar · Modern: WoodPurple amethyst is the gemstone pick for year six.
Shown: Amethyst Pendant, 14K yellow gold → -
Year 7OnyxTraditional: Wool or copper · Modern: Desk setsSleek black onyx makes a bold, modern gift for year seven.
Shown: Black Onyx Satin-Finish Ring, 14K yellow gold → -
Year 8TourmalineTraditional: Bronze · Modern: Linen or laceTourmaline comes in nearly every color, so you can choose her favorite.
Shown: Tourmaline Stud Earrings, 14K yellow gold → -
Year 9Lapis lazuliTraditional: Pottery or willow · Modern: LeatherLapis lazuli’s deep blue with flecks of gold has been prized for thousands of years.
Shown: Lapis Three-Stone Ring, 14K white gold → -
Year 10DiamondTraditional: Tin or aluminum · Modern: Diamond jewelryYear ten is the first big diamond milestone – and diamond jewelry tops the modern list too.
Shown: 1.0 Cttw. Diamond Stud Earrings, 14K white gold →
Anniversary Jewelry for Years 11–20
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Year 11TurquoiseTraditional: Steel · Modern: Fashion jewelryTurquoise is the gemstone pick for year eleven, while the modern list suggests fashion jewelry.
Shown: Landstrom’s Turquoise Ring, Black Hills Silver with 12K accents → -
Year 12JadeTraditional: Silk or linen · Modern: Pearls or colored gemsJade is the gemstone pick, while the modern list suggests pearls or colored gems.
Shown: Jade Pendant, sterling silver → -
Year 13CitrineTraditional: Lace · Modern: Textiles or fursSunny citrine brings warm golden color to year thirteen.
Shown: Citrine Accented Ring, 14K white gold → -
Year 14OpalTraditional: Ivory · Modern: Gold jewelryOpal is the gemstone pick and gold jewelry the modern one – an opal set in gold covers both.
Shown: Opal Minimalist Pendant, 14K yellow gold → -
Year 15RubyTraditional: Crystal · Modern: WatchesYear fifteen calls for ruby on the gemstone list, or a watch on the modern list.
Shown: Ruby Pendant, 14K white gold → -
Year 16PeridotModern: Silver hollowwareBright green peridot is the gemstone choice for year sixteen.
Shown: Peridot Pendant, 14K yellow gold → -
Year 19AquamarineModern: BronzeSoft blue aquamarine is the gemstone pick for year nineteen.
Shown: 1/2 Cttw. Aquamarine Stud Earrings, 14K white gold → -
Year 20EmeraldTraditional: China · Modern: PlatinumTwenty years brings emerald on the gemstone list and platinum on the modern list.
Shown: Emerald Pendant, 14K white gold →
Years 17 and 18: the gemstone list names a watch for year 17 and cat’s eye chrysoberyl for year 18. Call us at 719-269-7212 and we’ll help you find a fitting gift, or browse our gemstone jewelry.
Milestone Anniversary Jewelry
From the silver 25th to the diamond 60th, milestone years are made for jewelry.
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Year 25SilverTraditional: Silver · Modern: SilverThe silver anniversary – every list agrees on this one.
Shown: Landstrom’s Black Hills Silver Heart Pendant, sterling silver with 12K accents → -
Year 30PearlTraditional: Pearl · Modern: DiamondPearl is traditional for thirty years; the modern list suggests diamond.
Shown: Pearl Drop Pendant, 10K white gold → -
Year 35EmeraldTraditional: Coral · Modern: JadeThe lists split here – coral, jade or emerald – and emerald makes a lasting piece of jewelry.
Shown: 5/8 Cttw. Emerald Bypass Ring, 14K yellow gold → -
Year 40RubyTraditional: Ruby · Modern: RubyThe ruby anniversary – a red stone for forty years of love.
Shown: Ruby & Diamond Halo Ring, platinum → -
Year 45SapphireTraditional: Sapphire · Modern: SapphireAll three lists name sapphire for forty-five years.
Shown: Sapphire & Diamond Tennis Bracelet, 14K white gold → -
Year 50GoldTraditional: Gold · Modern: GoldThe golden anniversary – half a century together.
Shown: Diamond Tracer Band, 14K yellow and white gold → -
Year 55EmeraldTraditional: Emerald · Modern: EmeraldEmerald on most lists; the gemstone list also names alexandrite.
Shown: Emerald Circle Necklace, 14K yellow gold → -
Year 60DiamondTraditional: Diamond · Modern: DiamondThe diamond jubilee – sixty years deserves a stone that lasts.
Shown: 1.0 Cttw. Diamond Anniversary Ring, 14K white gold → -
Year 75DiamondTraditional: Diamond · Modern: DiamondSeventy-five years is most often marked with diamond (some lists say gold) – this band has both.
Shown: 1/10 Cttw. Diamond Anniversary Ring, 14K yellow gold →
Anniversary Gift Tips
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Choose the list that fits
Traditional, modern or gemstone – any of them is correct. Mix them, too: an opal in gold covers both the gemstone and modern lists for year 14.
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Think about how she wears jewelry
Look at what she reaches for every day – studs or hoops, yellow or white gold, simple or statement – and choose something in the same style.
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Combine with her birthstone
Add her birthstone or your children’s birthstones to an anniversary piece. Our Gemstone & Birthstone Guide lists them all.
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Upgrade for a milestone
Big anniversaries are a popular time for an anniversary band or larger diamond. Learn what matters in our 4Cs of Diamonds guide.
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Make it one of a kind
Have a design in mind or a family stone to reuse? See our custom design process to see how we create a new piece.
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Ask us for help
Not sure of her ring size or style? Stop by or contact us – we’re happy to help you choose.
More Jewelry Guides
- Gemstone & Birthstone Guide
Birthstones by month, popular gems and how to care for them.
Read the guide → - The 4Cs of Diamonds
How cut, color, clarity and carat weight shape a diamond’s beauty and price.
Read the guide → - Custom Design Process
How we take your idea from CAD design to finished piece.
Read the guide → - Jewelry Repair & Services
Sizing, re-tipping, laser welding, stone setting and more.
Read the guide →
Find Your Anniversary Gift in Canon City
Visit our store on Royal Gorge Blvd to see anniversary jewelry in person. We’ll help you find the right gift for your year.
703 Royal Gorge Blvd, Canon City, CO 81212 · 719-269-7212 · info@nelsenjewelry.com
Tuesday - Friday: 10:00 to 5:00
info@nelsenjewelry.com